Give Proper Care To Their Children And The Most Of Annoying Part Is That Woman Education Ends In The Kitchen?
Moreover Some Married Women And Spinster Who Spoke With Me This Said They Can Never Allow Their Husband To Impose Such On Them Because Men Are Not Trustworthy And Aside That They Need To Have Little Asset That Will Bear Their Name, Such Women Also Site Several Instances That They Just Have To Work To Support Their Husband In Paying Family Bills, While Some Also Said What If Their Husband Die Prematurely And She Cannot Boast Of Any Savings Or Alternative To Run The Family And Most Especially In The Kind Of Environment We Are In Africa That Relative Of Her Husband Might Come And Send Her Parking With The Children.
Base on statistical fact Our Current Nigeria Societies That in Most Households the Cost of Maintaining and Operating a Home Require That Both Spouse Work. It Does Not Take Much Arithmetic To Determine That The Cost Of New Homes, Car, Food, Private School And Clothing Are Beyond The Income Ability Of Average One Income Family. So Logically The Two Incomes Of Both Husband And Wife Are Needed To Maintain The Average Nigeria Family Standard.
Meanwhile Let Us View The Syndrome Of A Fulltime Housewife From A Religious Angle. In Reality And Islam The Right And Responsibilities Of A Woman Are Equal To That Of Man. But They Are Not Necessary Identical With Them. Equality And Sameness Are Two Different Things, Muslim Women Are Not Forbidden From Going Out To Work, If There Is No Objection From Their Husband And The Woman Will Always Work Within The Confines Of Shariah Value. From The Christian Perspective Women Are Also Not Ban from Working Outside Home but There Are Certain Biblical Priorities Few of Them Are the Following;
Husband’s Approval Many Working Wives Are Able to Gain Approval from Their Husband by Pressuring Them. Although Some Husband Don’t Actually Agree With Their Wives Working They Relent Under So Much Pressure This Is Not The Ideal Way Pressure Approval Will Eventually Undermine The Marriage Relationship. The Role of Mother and Teacher of Her Children Is Incontestable, the Father Usually Provides the Policy Decisions, But It’s The Wife Who Establishes Discipline and Direction on a Day to Day Basis.
Basically If Woman Will Work Outside The Home, Her Responsibility As A Wife,
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